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Ever wonder why certain things are not taught in Sex Ed?
Me too!
Now, you can know too; and you can help make this important, uncommon information, common knowledge; because after you download and read through the quick-read ebook, or watch the video presentation, YOU will become the trusted, go-to relationship expert for yourself, and everyone you care about. And that has been the best part of this entire journey for me; when you write to let me know how this information has helped you or the people you love. So, thank you, and keep the emails coming! They truly make my day.
**If you are male, scroll down and click below.
Relationships can be confusing. But that’s mostly because men and women don’t understand the basic biology that makes each different from the other. Men often believe that women think and feel (or SHOULD think and feel) like they do for example, and women think and believe the same about men. That makes finding and KEEPING “the one,” very much hit or miss and greatly contributes towards high numbers of relationship failures.
Truth Talk: The Last Dating Advice You’ll Ever Need is a comprehensive guide that helps males and females understand the science and biology behind what makes each other “tick.” It answers many questions that people have typically been misinformed about, with all answers based on well-researched, peer-reviewed, professionally published information, presented in a way that is easy enough for a 10-year old to understand.
Whether you’re 14 or 40, if you’d like proven answers to questions like: What makes men fall in love? What makes women fall in love? How can a man say he loves you today and be with someone else tomorrow? What drives men to pursue women? How do you find “the one?” What is HPV; where does it come from? How does HPV affect males compared to females? Is there a connection between HPV and miscarriages? Why do women agree to having “no strings” in a relationship, then change their minds later? Why don’t men want to commit? How can the average man get any woman he wants; even when he thinks she’s out of his league?” Who REALLY chooses; him or her? Why do women stay in abusive relationships? How do you stop loving an abusive mate? When does a human become an adult (BIOLOGICALLY)? What’s the BEST age for a female to give birth for the first time? Truth Talk: The Last Dating Advice You’ll Ever Need answers all these questions and more.
Truth Talk: The Last Dating Advice You’ll Ever Need
New Name, Same Impressively Comprehensive Information
Love, Sex & Men: What Every Girl Should Know is now Truth Talk: The Last Dating Advice You’ll Ever Need. Out of respect for the late Margaret Sanger (Founder of Planned Parenthood), the name was changed in March, 2020, after discovering that Margaret had written a series of articles and a book titled: What Every Girl Should Know, from 1912-1916.
After more than three years of research, I wrote my book and created my video in 2015 and had never heard of Margaret Sanger until 2020. In addition to the name she chose for her series, it was shocking for me to discover how she described the male sex drive. It was exactly the way I had described it in my book and video! Of course, once you understand it, it only makes sense that ANY knowledgeable female would describe it this way (if only to herself).
But my mother never taught me this, and I’m guessing, her mother never taught her either…BECAUSE THEY DIDN’T KNOW! Now that sex is talked about more openly, WOMEN STILL DON’T KNOW…instead, they share a lot of well-meaning, non-sense advice they get from friends and family. As a result, young women today are still clueless about the behaviors of men:
How could he tell me he loved me yesterday and be happy with someone else today? Why is it so hard for him to make a commitment? Why did I change my mind about wanting a commitment? Why do women stay in abusive relationships? How do you get out when you’re still in love? What makes men fall in love? What makes women fall in love? Truth Talk is an educational, comprehensive dating guide that answers these questions and so much more.
Although I began my research more than 100 years later, Margaret and I both wanted biological, scientific answers to male/female sexual behavior, and we found those answers. Because we both used science and biology, it’s only natural that we concluded the same things and even described the male sex drive using the same metaphor; because it’s basic biology! It’s just not TALKED about. When you read or watch Truth Talk, you’ll see exactly what I mean. Now, when you click below to download, make sure you take a moment to send me an email after you read or watch (drturner@virtualvillagemom.com) and let me know that indeed, your eyes have been opened and you have now been enlightened! KNOWING this is my greatest reward.
Truth Talk: The Last Dating Advice You’ll Ever Need
This book was awarded the maximum allowed 30 Continuing Education Credits from the National Commission for Health Education Credentialing in May, 2020.
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The Human Sex Drive:
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The Human Sex Drive
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This book inspired the creation of the video! Although it contains most of what is in the video, it also includes answers to frequently asked dating and relationship questions; and Chapter 10 was inspired by a real-life situation that was shared by one of my students. It’s bound to be an eye-opener for many adults as much as it was for my students.
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It is very natural for young girls to crave love, affection, and attention from males. When loving fathers are not “present” to offer this natural love in its purist form, girls often seek this affection from the boys or men they meet; not realizing that these males have an agenda of their own, which is typically not best for the female. The Purity Ring is a true, quick-read short-story of how, in a society where sex is everywhere, one single mother “accidentally” helped her two daughters to remain virgins beyond the age of 18, and strives to bring hope and inspiration to other parents (especially single mothers) that they can do the same, despite the world we live in.
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Truth Talk: The Last Dating Advice You’ll Ever Need
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Zacharis, K., Messini, C.I. Anifandis, G. Kouloulis, G., Satra, M. & Daponte, A. (2018, Jul 27). Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) and fertilization: A mini review. Retrieved from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6174353/
Adegoke, O., Kulasingam, S. & Virnig, B. (2012, October 21). Cervical cancer trends in the United States: A 35-year population -based analysis. Retrieved from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3521146/
American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists (2021, May). Cervical cancer screening. Retrieved from: https://www.acog.org/womens-health/faqs/cervical-cancer-screening#:~:text=Women%20who%20are%2021%20to,%2Dtesting)%20every%205%20years.
American Cancer Society (2018, Sept 12). Global cancer statistics 2018: Globocan estimates of incidence and mortality worldwide for 36 cancers in 185 countries. Retrieved from: https://acsjournals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.3322/caac.21492
American Cancer Society (2021, Jan 12). Cancer facts and figures 2021. Retrieved from: https://www.cancer.org/content/dam/cancer-org/research/cancer-facts-and-statistics/annual-cancer-facts-and-figures/2021/cancer-facts-and-figures-2021.pdf
Boeri, L., Capogrosso, P. Ventimiglia, E. Pederzoli, F. Cazzaniga, W. Chiergo, F. Pozzi, E., Clementi, M., Viganò, P., Montanari, E., Montorsi, F., & Salonia, A. (2019, Feb 1). High-risk human papillomavirus in semen is associated with poor sperm progressive motility and a high sperm DNA fragmentation index in infertile men. Retrieved from: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30517657/
Center for Disease Control and Prevention (2014, Jan 23). Genital HPV infection-CDC fact sheet. Retrieved from: https://www.cdc.gov/std/hpv/HPV-FS-print.pdf
Foresta, C., Patassini, C., Bertoldo, A., Menegazzo, M., Francavilla, F., Barzon, L., & Ferlin, A. (2011, Mar 7). Mechanism of Human Papillomavirus Binding to human spermatozoa and fertilizing ability of infected spermatozoa. Retrieved from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3051064/
Hennenberg, A.A., Patton, W.C. Jacobson, J.D. & Chan, P.J. (2006, Jul 27). Human papilloma virus DNA exposure and embryo survival is stage-specific. Retrieved from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3506371/
Kombe, A.J., Bofeng, L., Zahid, A., Mengist, H.M., Bounda, G.A. Zhou, Y. & Jin, T. (2020). Epidemiology and burden of Human Papillomavirus and related diseases, molecular pathogenesis and vaccine evaluation. National Library of Medicine. Retrieved from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7855977/pdf/fpubh-08-552028.pdf
Mathers, C., Boschi-Pinto, C. (2000). Global burden of cancer in the year 2000: Version 1 estimates. Retrieved from: https://www.who.int/healthinfo/statistics/bod_malignantneoplasmscancers.pdf?ua=1
Meites, E., Gee, J., Unger, E., & Lauri, M. (2021, Aug). Human papillomavirus. Center for Disease Control and Prevention. Retrieved from: https://www.cdc.gov/vaccines/pubs/pinkbook/downloads/hpv.pdf
Moscicki, A.B., Perkins, R.B., Saville, M., & Brotherton, J.M.L. (2018, Sept 26). Should cervical cancer screening be performed before the age of 25 years? Retrieved from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6250286/
National Cancer Institute (2021, January 22). HPV and cancer. Retrieved from: https://www.cancer.gov/about-cancer/causes-prevention/risk/infectious-agents/hpv-and-cancer
Nour, NM (2009). Cervical cancer: A preventable death. Retrieved from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2812875/
Rousseau, M.C., Pereira, J.S., Prado, J.C.M., Villa, L.L., Rohan, T.E., Franco, E.L. (2001, Dec 15). Cervical coinfection with Human Papillomavirus (HPV) types as a predicator of acquisition and persistence of HPV infection. The Journal of Infectious Diseases. Retrieved from: https://academic.oup.com/jid/article/184/12/1508/814906
Senkomago, V., Henley, S.J., Thomas, C.C., Mix, J.M., Markowitz, L.E. & Saraiya, M. (2019). Human Papillomavirus-attributable cancers-United States, 2012-2016. Center for Disease Control and Prevention. Retrieved from: https://www.cdc.gov/mmwr/volumes/68/wr/mm6833a3.htm?s_cid=mm6833a3_wMMWR%20Morb%20Mortal%20Wkly%20Rep.
Syrjänen, S. (2010). Current concepts on human papillomavirus infections in children. Retrieved from: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/20553530/
Wang, Y.X., Alarcón, L.M., Gaskins, A.J, Missmer, S.A., Edwards, R.J.W., Manson, J.E., Pan, A., & Chavarro, J.E. Association of spontaneous abortion with all cause and cause specific premature mortality: prospective cohort study. British Medical Association. Retrieved from: https://www.bmj.com/content/372/bmj.n530
World Health Organization (2020). Cervix uteri fact sheet. Retrieved from: https://gco.iarc.fr/today/data/factsheets/cancers/23-Cervix-uteri-fact-sheet.pdf
Zacharis, K., Messini, C.I. Anifandis, G. Kouloulis, G., Satra, M. & Daponte, A. (2018, Jul 27). Human Papilloma Virus (HPV) and fertilization: A mini review. Retrieved from: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6174353/